heart_sunglasses asked:
I would just like to know (preferably from a guy’s perspective) what comes into people’s mind during dating. Who actually does the 3rd date rule?
I would just like to know (preferably from a guy’s perspective) what comes into people’s mind during dating. Who actually does the 3rd date rule?
My boyfriend suggested sex on our one month (but then, he wanted sex even before that). I wasn’t ready, and we waited till our 5 months. Totally worth the wait.
Comment by Liz S — May 18, 2009 @ 6:38 am
first date!!!
hehe, just joking…
during the first dates, its normally just kissing… About a couple of weeks, (it really depends on the other person) thats when things start getting sexual..
Xxx
Comment by Chris_H — May 20, 2009 @ 12:35 pm
In my opinion, it depends on what the relationship was before the dating started. If you meet someone in a club, and then have a couple of dates, things can move pretty quickly. There is an excitement to the new relationship based on physical attraction. And in a way, our barriers to sex are lower when we are attracted to someone from the outset.
If sex doesn’t occur on the occasion of meeting (which if we are honest, happens a great deal) then at least the subject will be tackled on the 2nd or 3rd meeting.
If, however, you start dating a friend you have known for a period of time, the situation is slightly different. You like each other because you are friends already, but there is a hesitation because of this friendship - a fear of going too far and not being able to go back to the safe regularity of that. Sex between friends that date, in my opinion, will occur quite a while after it would between virtual strangers. But I believe this is just a consequence of the society we live in.
Comment by San N — May 23, 2009 @ 6:47 am